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I'd love to let you know that I'm taking a break from COP and i'm doing it because COP is no longer the place i can have my fun in anymore. Every time i log in there's some toxic drama going on and it started to get tiring, boring and redundant. Yes it didn't feel good to know what i know now about some of the members i had good relationships with, but i'm not going to blame them or anything because there's no need for it, i just hope they get better and to grow from their mistakes. We all make mistakes and we all grow by learning from them, i should know about this on a deeper level because that's what i'm about and it's the path i've chosen for myself professionally. So there's no way i'm not going to forgive others for their mistakes; it might take me some time but i eventually end up forgiving others (or removing people from my life if it is something that can not be forgiven). 

 

Racism, in particular, is a deal breaker for me, i can't stand it and i'm against giving airtime+platform to it. You will never see me arguing about who should be saying the N word or any other mainstream talking point that's related to race. We're in 2019 and everything should be clear to everybody, i know better and you, white person, should know better. If you don't want to be excluded from spaces then you should do enough work to be included. It is not a POC job to educate and explain shit to white people. We, POC, collectively, have had enough throughout history and some white people still refuse to take racism seriously even after lots of lives were lost because of racism. So yes, racism in 2019 is a conscious choice and as always choices do have con$equences. It would be cool if you can apologize for your racist actions without being pressured to do so, but just know that your work is far from over even after apologizing. Hell no. You should, as a white person, actively work to educate your fellow white people on racism and how everyone should be included, especially if you're responsible for an online diverse community. In 2019 diversity and all-inclusive equals $hmoney so you, as a white person, have nothing to lose and everything to gain, so get to work, what are you waiting for?

 

As for @Dangerous Woman, well, i don't think you should leave, yes what you've done was disappointing to say the least but the one who got hurt the most was you, you've hid your true self for so long and that was enough punishment if you asked me, so stop hurting yourself even more, looks aren't everything in this world and you should stop attaching your worth to your looks. You are a good person underneath it all and we've all loved you for your events and what not. You're a valuable active member of COP and it is not fair to lose you this way. Obviously you'd need some time to balance everything and that's your business, but just know that you're a good person with a good heart. I've seen you empowering a lot of members in here so this tells me that you're growing up/maturing to be something great and i'm proud of you. It's a new era for you and be glad it happened. Now you get to be your authentic self and that's a win for you. <3 

 

My break starts from tomorrow.

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Come back soon sis :trishabawl: it's a shame this has to happen but I can't blame anyone for leaving or taking a break because unfortunately COP has become a very toxic environment because some people are just repulsive.

But like I've said to several POC on COP, I'm sorry and I've done my research as a result of being uneducated on race related issues. So I'm putting that into action instead of apologizing a million times over because that's gonna prove that I'm not just a talking head, but that I've actually learnt from my mistakes :cm:

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Ahmed habibi, inshallah you take the required time off w trg3 completely in a better state than this.

 

بعرف انه الموقوع مرات يكون كتير والموضوع يكون صعب اوي لانه الناس يلي موجوده حوالينا من اخبث الخلايق. اذا حاب تكلمني او اي حاقه كلمني ع الديسكورد ولاتقطع منه خالص :heart:

 

I don’t know if you understand arabic, if you do then yay if you don’t then wig chile

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1 hour ago, Sempiternal said:

We will he here when u get back tho think a lot of us are hating this uncessary drama on cop daily it's suppose to be fun

 

No shade but did you not read Paragraph 2 .. 

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You'll be missed @Ahmed

I'm truly sorry about the drama that's unfolded the last few days. I hope this forum can become a better place so you can come back without feeling stress. I wish you well. I know we've had our differences, but you're a good guy, and at the end of the day, that's all that matters :)

 

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We all are gonna miss you a lot. You're very loved here and you're one of the best members of the forum. I hope you come back soon and the forum gets better when you do so. The forum can't lose another great member like you. 

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7 minutes ago, the supreme said:

Curious who paragraph 2 is aimed at

It is a universal if the cap fits type of thing. Ahmed is highly educated respectful and classy so that is how he does things.

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I'm going to miss the hell out of you, dude. You're a big reason to keep me coming back. You've got a big heart and an even bigger mind, and I respect you so much as a human. Miss you already <3

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4 hours ago, King or Queen said:

No shade but did you not read Paragraph 2 .. 

And I learnt from what I did. Ahmed is someone I adore and not gonna let that horriable past mistake to change that. It's why we a need a step back and a break because people keep bringing up drama and blaming others for it. We are all in the wrong and all have done mistakes it's time to move on from it.

I'm still the same person you all loved and cared for last week

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33 minutes ago, Sempiternal said:

And I learnt from what I did. Ahmed is someone I adore and not gonna let that horriable past mistake to change that. It's why we a need a step back and a break because people keep bringing up drama and blaming others for it. We are all in the wrong and all have done mistakes it's time to move on from it.

I'm still the same person you all loved and cared for last week

I haven't said anything bad about you .... 

 

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I’m gonna miss you Ahmed, you’ve been so kind to me since I came back. You’re truly a lovely soul and that is so loved and appreciated in this world. 

Take care love :love:

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